playerKill() was marked as deprecated, but it seems like a good idea
to do proper cleanup in all threads (e.g. for usable valgrind
results). Introduce the command "EXIT" which makes the player thread
exit cleanly.
playerWait() stops the player thread (twice!) and closes the output
device. It should be well enough to just send CLOSE_AUDIO, without
STOP.
This requires a tiny change to the player thread code: make it break
when CLOSE_AUDIO is sent.
